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Love Problem (14)

Dear BAM, 

I think it's kind of wrong to ask you this and you don't really know me but I need to ask you. 

So there is this bad boy at my school and he only seems to like talking to me and he tells me stuff that he doesn't tell anyone else so I guess that I kind of do your job when I talk to him : ). Anyway I think he might like me but I don't know if he does and I think I might start to have feelings for him, but I'm scared cause he's a player and he might just play me. I feel like my life is from a book right now. 

Please answer this one cause I'm really confused and afraid I'll get hurt. 

From, NerdyGirl

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Dear NerdyGirl, 

Firstly I just want to say that it's never wrong to ask for advice to someone even to someone who doesn't know you. Of course if you would like you could always get to know me as I know you by just talking to me xD (NOTE TO ANYONE READING THIS: it's okay to come talk to me just to become my friend :P oh and I concider you all to be like family anyway xD Got to stick together c:)

But on to your problem. Okay, so I wanted to say that everyone is afraid to get hurt. It doesn't matter if the guy is the most goody goody boy or the most badass. The question is are you willing to hurt for this person. Everyone is going to hurt you in life in some small or big way, what you have to remember is who is worth hurting over. This guy, you guys seem to already have a foundation on friendship, focus on that. If you really like someone, all this talk about being a player and all that shouldn't matter because you see the real him. If he flirts with other girls infront of you, I'd say he's trying to get you jealous half of the time. It's twisted logic but it's what I've learned. Don't throw it on the table that he doesn't like you because he does this. Also if he talks about girls infront of you, saying who he wants to go out with and actually does go out with them or take them on dates and stuff then that's when you know your friendzoned. If he can open up to you, you have to open up to him. Now when I say this I'm not saying to spill every sob story you can but I mean just open your heart and mind to possibilities. What my advice for you is, is to wait til he makes the move. This will only guarantee you that he actually likes you and wants to spend his time on you and no one else. This is what I like to do when it comes to players. A player will drop his ways for a girl he likes, but only you could tell if your catching feelings or not darling. lol But yeah, I hope this helped in some way .-. 

BAM