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Love problem (25)

Dear BAM, so I have two problems going on and it'll be great if you helped me. 1. My crush of almost two years is graduating in about a month. I'm going to miss him so much! I have his number and stuff but I'm sort of scared to text him while he's gone. I feel really sad because I've liked him for all this time and I never got a chance with him. He knew i liked him for more than a year and he's two years older than me. He's really nice to me lol, but sometimes he can be a little mean to me. He said I'm pretty but he just doesn't like me like that and im too young for him. but yeah, like he is leaving and im gonna miss him a lot . What should I do? 2. I have about 5 guys that like me, but I don't like them back. I continue to reject them and stuff and I feel really bad because I've been rejected by my crush so i know how it feels. 4/5 of them know who I have a crush on and they don't really bother me. But I have this one boy who use to stalk me. He took pictures of me, followed me and stared at me all the time. He stopped taking pictures and stuff but he still stares at me ( i don't really mind), anyways this boy is ALWAYS asking me questions like: "what celebrity would you date?" "Would you rather date or ?" And stuff like that. He knows it annoys me by the look on my face and he even said "I'll stop annoying u" but he still continues to do it! It's really annoying! So yeah, how can I get the boy to stop and how do I reject these guys nicely? Thank you! -yael

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Dear yael,

1. I don't think you should be scared to text him when he's gone. Staying in contact would probably be nice for the both of you. And plus when you miss someone you should show it and not let yourself be cooped up by ideas that you can't or too scared to. The worst he could do is not answer.

2. Well tell him you'd appreciate it if he'd lay on all the questions because it is starting to annoy you. And tell the guys that you don't see yourself being with anyone and your kinda interested in someone else. You'd still like to be friends if they want to but understand if they didn't.

BAM