her truth

meeting him was the biggest mistake

To the computer labs, Sandra finished her work to be on a different tab to be eyeing over her dating app, to make a face.
Why can't I seem to find a nice Asian man?
Sandra was a white woman trying to find an Asian man, that was just her preference. Her sisters had asked what she saw in them but she really didn't know how to answer that, in essence it was because in her youth she tried to date 3 white guys for one to have spurned her affection in middle school for them to try to date in high school, but remembering what she felt, she just couldn't put it past, so the two just couldn't make a go of it, the other one Sandra really liked but he just stole a kiss to then lie to her, the other one, had gotten a woman pregnant on his first date and he came with mama drama and only cared about having sex with her.
Sandra tried too date two African American men to get the same problem, they only cared about sex, one even called Sandra shallow and that was the end of trying to date African American men.
There was another white guy she tried to date in college when she went to another state, but he only cared for Sandra because she had a car, also when she wouldn't have sex with him they just parted under bad terms.
Also in college she did try to date a Mexican man who only cared for sex and when Sandra let him know she wasn't ready he went back to his ex on repeat.
So having not a great track record with white, African American and a Mexican men this was probably the contributing factor of why Sandra was giving Asian men a chance, however after that one she went on a date with, and the fact no other was seeming to be interested in her, Sandra was losing hope.
Looking through a few things, Sandra then looked to a profile that would change her life for the worst in so many ways, without knowledge to her at this moment, this man was the devil and she shouldnt have messaged him, however how could she have known.
Looking at this guy's profile, he messaged her first, this man looked Asian however she read he was Mexican.
Sandra made a considerate face.
She remembered that one Mexican man in college, taking a very deep breathe she ended up messaging him back.
The two over a course of a few days kept messaging the other back and forth, he was very eager to meet with her that weekend, not really knowing any places to this new city, Sandra took a chance to set up something.
To her car by the weekend, Sandra couldn't stop bouncing her foot up and down, she then messaged her sister to let her know she was going to meet this man in real life.
Her sister was very encouraging in this and wished Sandra well.
Looking about Sandra saw it was going to rain.
Turning her head she saw a car, a old bmw with tinted windows to not know that is where the devil dwelled.
Not knowing it was him, sandra kept looking about, soon she turned her head to see him getting out of the car to go about, Sandra's eyes lit up to then place her phone to her pocket to then get out of the car to go to him with a smile.
He smiled back.
Sandra then looked up.
"So....I was hoping to go on a walk here however it's raining. Can we go somewhere else? With shade?"
He nodded.
"Okay follow me. It's not far."
The man got back in his car to then follow Sandra, she quickly texted her sister to let her know the location changed to then go to a forest where the rain wouldn't touch.
Getting there, the two got out to then go to a trail to stay to walk.
The two had an indepth conversation that Lead to a lot of laughing to then start to walk back to there cars.
"So, read to your profile you can speak Spanish?"
Sandra couldn't help but to blush .
"I'm still learning but can count to 40 in Spanish."
"Still very cool. Many people don't even know how to count in a different language."
"Well I'm trying, also trying to learn Chinese, Thai, German and many others."
"Wow. That's really impressive."
"Oh I have to admit you scared me a bit." She laughed
"Oh?"
"Your blacked out BMW."
"That usually scares people " he laughed.
The two then went on to talk about what they were looking for in a relationship and just shooting the breeze.
Going back to there cars sandra didn't want to be done with there date yet, she really liked this guy.
He stood before her to eye.
"Let's get something to eat."
Sandra couldn't help but to smile and wide.
They went to an eatery where he paid for them to scarve down there food, after the two met at her car to talk a bit more for them to part, Sandra went to her father's to be texting him here and there.
Getting to get father's, Sandra let him know who she met and the fact the really seemed to hit it off, the two kept texting the other well into the night.
By the next day, the guy didn't seem to want to wait for another date, he asked Sandra out to then pick her up in his car.
Sandra was very happy.
Going to a secluded place, Sandra eyed his licenced plate to then tell her sister where she was and that number to make sure nothing bad would happen.
To the car, there conversation came a bit more indepth, he talked about his family, his past bad relationship, the fact he had gone to jail for a DUI when he was 17. Just got out before he turned 21.
Sandra made a face to then look forward, she was raised by a police officer, didn't know how to feel that this guy had a criminal past, oddly though, she was mad at his ex's sister who let a 17 year old drive drunk.
Sandra took in a deep breathe to turn her head to eye over him to place her hand over his, he looked to the action to then eye her to smile.
The two talked a bit more for him to then take sandra to go meet his friends.
Parked outside, he turned to look to her, for them to eye the other adorly to then share in a kiss.
Sandra furrowed her brow has it started to grow. She had kept to herself the fact she was a virgin, sandra really liked this man and didn't want to have it end quite so soon.
Parting from there kiss, the two looked at the other for them to then part to go inside of a garage.
Going in, Sandra looked about to see his friend who was younger then them to be sitting down to have a pipe out to be smoking pot.
Sandra made a face to then sit down has they all started to talk.
Sandra had been around drugs when she was younger, she was not foreign to pot specially but it wasn't something she did, when his friend passed it to her, sandra eyed it with a face to then inhale, she just didn't want her time with this man to be cut off, not when she really liked him.
After meeting his friend, the two got back in his car for Sandra to look to him with his red eyes.
"Are you okay to drive?"
"I drive like this all the time. I smoke pot a lot with my friends."
Sandra nodded to then turn her head to look out the window, she made a face has she felt his hand to hers to hold, sandra looked to it to take in a deep breathe.
It is only pot.
"Um.... Do you do any other drugs?"
"Not right now. There are others i want to try but....."
Sandra made a face to then look back to there hand holding.
That was the first in many times that was to come that Sandra would lose a piece of herself for the notion of love.
With a heavy gulp, Sandra looked passed that to think about everything the two had talked about to continue with this. She really did like him.
Taking her back to her father's, the two looked to the other.
"So next weekend can we hang out?"
Sandra nodded.
"I'll see you next weekend Diego."
He smiled and wide to then get back in his car, sandra watched has he went to take in a deep breathe.
She really didn't know about this but there was something that seemed to be different about him. Given all the jerks Sandra had been with before, she was going to give this man a chance, not to know the hell he would bring to her table.