Dance Through Trauma

July 29, 2021

I can't believe that I almost fell for my mom's boyfriend's lies. He told me the other day that my mother thinks stuff that isn't true, but we just found out that it is all true. He's a pathological liar, and I noticed it the day when I called the police back in June because of the lies he told the police. He lies to protect himself, but my mother is destroying him with the truth everyday. I'm so glad that she's finally standing up against the abusive man. He needs to understand that he has no right to abuse any woman ever. The fact that he's seeing a woman, and is not home until night time shows that he prefers that woman over his children. He's not a great father, he's not a great person, and he is not true to his beliefs. How can he claim to be Christian when he isn't following the words that he believes in? The fact that his family is defending him sickens me knowing how he has treated my mother in the past. He believes that he's bigger than everyone, but my mother is finally breaking him into pieces to show him that he will not win with lies anymore. I feel so bad for everyone out there who is suffering relationship abuse, but they will all be free someday. Thanks to the woman who is with my mom's boyfriend for posting the truth of their secret relationship on Facebook through her posts. The fact that she mentioned his name and so many other traits about him proves that my mother isn't crazy like her boyfriend claims she is. I'm not sure why that woman keeps insulting my mother on Facebook though, but I'm just glad that the truth is out, and that it made my mother confront her boyfriend with every single wrong thing that he has done in the past because we are finally showing a narcissist that the world doesn't revolve around him. My mother had to endure so much pain, but she is being set free from the truth.

- July 29, 2021