Hi,
So lately nothing I do is good enough. I guess you could call that me being a super-perfectionist, but it's not like that. For example when I am playing sport the only thing going through my mind is how stupid and pathetic I must look. When I'm at school and around my friends, I always feel so fat compared to them. When I'm doing school work, it needs to be perfect. One mistake doesn't cut it, I need none. No-one ever takes me seriously and I can't tell anyone about these issues because most likely all they'd say is, "Lighten up drama queen.'" I think I'm putting way too much pressure on myself to be perfect. On another topic, how fat is 51kg for a girl that 167.5cm?? I want to know how much weight I need to lose.... From, Super-Perfectionist
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Dear Super-Perfectionist,
Okay first thing is first, you are putting too much on yourself to be perfect. And chances are when you wanna strive to be perfect you end up breaking down. That's because you put yourself through too much. No one is perfect and I mean no one. So don't keep thinking all these things that will seem to make you perfect .-. If you don't think anything you do is good enough.. change your perspective. Try looking at it in a different pov or even ask a close friend for there pov. Playing a sport.. if your not comfortable then don't play. Sports are there for you to have fun. If you are worrying about what you look like then you aren't having fun are you? For me, I know I probably look bad playing a sport but I still play it because I block everything out and just keep playing. Now for you feeling fat. For what you gave me you aren't fat at all. You are actually below what you are supposed to be. I'm going to guess you're 5'6 and around 112 pounds? Yeah you're not fat at all. Just because you are in your 100 pounds area doesn't mean your fat v.v Well school work you can worry about that on your own. If you want it to be perfect well I guess you would need to, to get a good grade but no one is grading you on sports or your body image so don't worry about those stuff. Just the stuff that matters.
Alex
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