The apple doesn't fall far from the tree

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Dear Alex,

I hate my mom. She is such a whore. She brings different guys home every night and "DOES" them. She told me she she was pregnant and had no idea who was the father and then she lost the baby and a month later got aids. Please help I find my self following in her footsteps. I have pretty much had sex with every guy in high school . Oh and I am 16.

From Kitty

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Dear Kitty, 

Well, I think you and your mom need to seek counseling. Both of you are suffering from different cases and it would be best for you to seek a professional. 

Your mother could be suffering internally and may be addicted to sex with men just to feel some worth in her. She may have had a case from the past that has lead her to being like this. Your father may have done something simply by leaving her (i don't know the case, I'm just putting out examples) and there may be a hint of abandonment. Now she faces new troubled with losing a baby and getting Aids. A therapist will work with her and these problems and also the past problems. 

With you, it probably has to do with your mother. You look at your mother and you see her doing these things and then you act upon it but I also feel like there might be something deeper than that. Are you feeling loved in your life? Family problems can lead to wanting pleasure from guys. And it's something to take your mind off of it but I don't really wish for you to turn to your mother sweetie, so I would say go seek a concealer that will help you as well. And I don't mean me but a professional. They will help you get to the root of your problems and that solution may be that your mother has to get better since your mother is the role model for you. 

But just remember, it's your choice in whatever you do and your choice to come forth with these problems. You already saw the problem. The next task is making your mother seeing it and then possibly persuading her to go with you to get help. 

I hope this advice serves you in the long run. 

Alex

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