Sadies

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So, my school's Sadie Hawkins dance is coming up, and there's this guy I really want to ask, but he makes me so nervous and I don't know if I want to ask him or not. I'm so introverted that it's not even funny, so I don't know how to ask anyone to anything, let alone my crush to a dance! Should I just go with my best friend, or get some courage?

-Shy and Dateless

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Dear Shy and Dateless, 

Well I feel in my heart that you should gain courage to ask him. I feel like this is the best time to make a move you know? If you go with your best friend then your just staying in that comfort zone. Now what people don't realize what life is made of is getting out of that comfort zone once in awhile. You can be soooo nervous while asking someone out but at least you had the guts to do it you know? And that alone gains you a lot of respect. So even if you ask this guy out and he says no you will always have that respect and it gets you noticed by him. I say to go for it and make the best out of your experience. You never know until you try. If you want to know how to ask him, you should get your best friend involved and see what you guys can come up with together. What I find cute is a little scavenger hunt or a puzzle type thing because it's unique and that way your not as nervous since your not directly asking him out, you know? c: 

Either way I hope you have fun at the dance ^_^

Alex

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