Hey :) umm well this is a long story. I was with my friend one day and she introduced me to her friend which was a guy. We got really close but like in a brother and sister way,we sorta became best friends, one day I found out from a girl in my group of friends that she met this guy on Facebook, it was my friend. they started dating and we all went out to places me my best friend Gabriela, him and his girlfriend(which was my friend) after a while Gabriela him and I became sort of like a trio/ best friends. Went out everyday. we kinda found out that she was a bitch to him. So I was at Gaby's house after he left and she said to me that his girlfriend texted him and said she didn't want me hanging out with me anymore. So that was the last time he spoke to me... After about 4 months I was on holiday in Colombia and he started talking to me which was weird, and I believe in second chances starting talking to him aswell. I learned that him and his girlfriend broke up. He then started saying that he really missed me and gaby and all that, I really hated his girlfriend which used to be one of my friends but she did really mean things to me and my bestfriend Gabriela, she turned our whole group against us two. So I was at the mall and I turned around and they were behind me. We started talking and I asked what they were doing here (him and his 'ex-girlfriend') they were celebrating their one year anniversary. So obviously I asked if they were back together but they weren't. So me and him were still talking and on Saturday he messaged randomly and said 'bye' I found out on the day they got back together, now he won't talk to me anymore but I'm over it, today he was waiting outside my school, obviously waiting for his girlfriend. He said he needed to talk to me but I just walked away with my friends, should I give him a chance?
-M
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Dear M,
Okay, So I get the whole girlfriend is jealous and doesn't want him to hang out with you. Sometimes in relationships you have to compromise but it's one thing I wish didn't have to happen because your friends are your friends and you should be able to talk to anyone you want to, you know? But anyway I just had to say something about that. What I think is messed up in this whole situation is that he only talks to you when they are broken up.. Like he waited til that time to talk to you again but again I kind of get it with the whole girlfriend thing. He didn't want to lose her or have them keep fighting. Basically she see's you as a threat in some way which kinda makes me laugh. Now for the present. He wants to talk to you but you basically brushed him off. Which would be how I would react to be honest just to show that what he's doing to you as a friend isn't okay but if he goes to you again and saying that he really needs to talk to you then I would hear what he has to say. You're just giving him a chance to explain whatever he needs to and that if he is sorry for not talking to you whenever she is around then that's good. But if he doesn't go to you again then just leave it alone. But yeah, that's all I have to say. Good luck cx
Alex
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