hey!
so all my friends are getting boyfriends, or have a special someone and im pretty much the only one who isnt even close to getting one, no boys even look at me. and while im really super happy for them, im also super jealous and i feel like an awful friend :( im 18, i feel like im too old to be single, you know? im so afraid ill end up alone, that no one will ever love me and all my friends getting together with someone has made me really insecure (my looks dont help either) and i caught myself wishing their relationship didnt work out, which is terrible and only makes me feel even more awful about myself - i mean its totally not me to wish anyone harm or bad stuff. any advice on dealing with jealousy?
the lonely girl
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Dear the lonely girl,
You aren't too old to be single. But I get the whole end up alone kind of thing. To deal with jealousy.. well first of all focus on you instead of them. Don't focus on what they have and what you don't. If you don't have something, go out and get yourself that something. In this case it's a boyfriend. Go out and mingle with some boys and then you won't sit there in jealousy over your friends relationships. Another thing is stepping away whenever they are near you so you don't act all grouchy when they are. Be happy with your whole relationship status and not worry about it. These are the few things that will help you deal with it. c:
hope it helps !
Alex

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