He asked me out, I said no, but now I have feelings.

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Dear Alex,

      Hello I'm in a teenager crisis you can say.I'm probably young to you but a little while ago I was told someone liked me.It wasn't just any guy but it was the class douchbag and badboy you can say.He gets in fights and everything.He asked me out and I said No because I knew what I was going to get into.A day don't go by without thinking that I may actually have pin up feelings for him.I regret knowing him liking me because this feelings are stuck with me day and night.I cant tell my friends fear of being judged.My mother is also his teacher,How embarrassing!She knows how he is and frankly I have no idea what to do?I cant tell him because he'll do something stupid or mean and if I secretly date him someones going to find out. Also like to point out that before I ever found out I liked him that he used to flirt with me now and then.Even though he done with almost every girl.There's this place us teens go to during weekends and he goes there too.My friends that knew he liked me(But they don't know the feelings I have) were teasing him but he didn't care.He seems to want to get to know me but I push him away fear of being heart broken...But then again sometimes I think its just a game with him. Help please:$ I'm in a sticking mess.        

   From: ConfusedGirl8  

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Dear ConfusedGirl8,    I'm sorry in advanced if this isn't the best advice ever. I have been sick and I'm currently like loopy and tired while answering this.   But anyway, did you like the guy before he asked you out or after he did because that can determine a lot for you. If you liked him after he confessed than you don't really like him because you just liked that you had someone to like you. And if you did like him before he asked you out than I think that you should give him a chance for him to get to know you. But I wouldn't get too close if he is still showing interest to other girls. If he is then it is just a game to him and your a part of it but it he isn't then you have nothing else to worry about but getting to know him. You guys don't have to date right off the bat and you should tell him that. It's not good if you rush into something you know might cause people to sling onto your back about.    I hope this helped.  Alex

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