I'm really confused now, for some of the boys in my form.
1. I have a crush on a boy in my class last year and he started ignoring me since April but I dunno why. I'm really confused and kinda hurt.
2. I think I'm growing a crush on another boy in my class. He's cute and funny and really sweet sometimes. Rumour says he likes another girl but he denies it. And I think my best friend likes him a bit too. I only know him this year and he's a year older than me, but his grades sucks, to be honest, and I'm top of class. He's really good in PE and he sings really well too. But I don't know if he likes me, 'cuz he socializes with girls a lot.
3. I think 2 other boys in my class like me. They act cool and all but they usually don't do things like that. It's pretty awkward.
4. The other boy in my class which I'm currently crushing on likes spreading rumours on everyone, like who's dating who's and stuff like that. I was, of course, part of the rumours and I hate it. How can I make them shut up?
I'm really confused. I don't want to have such an early relationship but I don't want to let others down. Can you help?
- The weirdo with social problems but keeps them in her own mind until now
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Dear The weirdo with social problems but keeps them in her own mind until now,
^ That's a long name xD lol anywho,
1. You should go talk to him and see whats going on. You never know until you try. I mean, as someone who's been ignored for maybe a year I would know that getting ignored sucks and hurts. So you either wait it out or you make a move. Go up to him and just say hey. If he ignores that then you can be like "I need to talk to you." If he doesn't respond to that. Then you should say "Well, I'm not going to force you but if you wanna hear what I have to say then come find me." If he doesn't, then he is an idiot and you shouldn't waste your time on him anymore.
2. Well rumours are rumours. You can't listen to the rumour mill. It will get you know where. You say that your on top of your class and he's kinda suck? Well why don't you try to interact with him more on that? Offer some help to him maybe? I mean, it would set you off from the rest of the girls he interacts with and might give you a new light in seeing you in a different way you know? Its best to take chances and even if it doesn't blossom into a relationship, it will a friendship.
3. Well how do you know that they might like you? And what "things" ?
4. Wow.. well this guy is a gossip queen fursure. You can't stop rumours but only ignore them and not let them effect you. You can just put out the fire from where you stand. So if someone asks you about the rumour then just set them straight but other than that, you really can't do anything about it :/
I hope this helps you!
Alex
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