hey its me again i know but ur good so here i am *raises hand* first i have a question ur profile says yo name brittanee y idk im confused on that? anywho my problem is theres this guy that i have recently met. we became friends instantly well we got to know each other and i like him a lot. i feel butterflies just thinking bout him i just cant explain it. then theres this guy who ive known for a while and hes cute and i liked him instantly to but i dont know if its just attraction to his looks or if its more than that. o.O but this guy i dont think he likes me back. sooo u get my prob? thank ya much -Autumn LeeAnn
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Dear Autumn LeeAnn,
Well hello again :) It's alright, no worries :) My name is Brittanee. Brittanee Alexandria Magno to be more specific. But for Ask Alex. I just took the Alex from my Second name in my first name v.v It's also the reason why I have my user name as BAMbooks because it's my whole name plus books because it's my books or works or whatever you wanna call it but yeah.
Secondly, Yeah i can kinda see your problem. What I think is that you seem to like the first one more no? While the other one your not too sure about... see when you like someone, like really like them and not just infatuated by them, your feelings will be really clear. Which seems to be the case with the first guy that you like. You have to analyze how you react with each guy. You get butterflies when you think of the first one, does that happen with the second? Does the second one make you feel like you do with the first? Because if not, then I would say that the first guy is better for you. Then again, you have to see if the first one likes you back as more than a friend. The second one could just be a crush that you don't persue. There are cases like that. Where one doesn't like the other.. one is attracted mainly on looks but it has to be more than that.
If your wondering how you know the difference between liking someone because of their looks and liking someone on their personality.. write them down. What do you like about these guys? Write a colum for each of the guys and write what attracts you to them. Do you like their eyes? Do you like their smile? Do you like the way they make you laugh? Are they open about things? Do you like that they are open? Do they share little things like if they like cupcakes or read in the bathtub that makes them adorable to you? Are they gentlemen opening the door or giving you gifts here and there which is another quality of thoughtfulness? Just list them down. If you have more things on your list that are physical than personality wise then you are definitely just attracted to their looks and not really on whats in the inside.
I hope this answers any question you might have had :3
Alex :)

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