A guy that just doesn't get it

1K 4 3
                                        

Dear Alex,

I'm not sure if your still doing these but i hope i get an answer :) A guy from my homeschool high school added me over fb. I accepted since i had mutual friends. He started talking to me just a few weeks before i was gonna graduate 8th grade. Hes nice and all but a bit TOO nice and compliments me a lot. Basically, flirts with me. I dont flirt with him, i just stay nice and say thanks to his compliments. I have told him that hes nice and sweet and so now i guess he thought I was flirting back, when i wasnt trying to. So we became good friends but i did keep my distance from him. Then in August he told me he liked me and told me to take a chance with him. I honestly didnt like him. So i said "i just like you as my friend sorry." We did talk after that and he asked me a few more times, and i restated my answer each time. Then things got spicy. He brought his cousin into everything and she started talking from his P.O.V. That really did piss me off on how he couldnt talk to me himself. She said how i should back off (when he talked to me in the first place), how i lead him on (even though i told him i wanted to be friends a lot of times) and that hes done with me. And i fought back classy. Then signed off. A few hours later, the boy came back online and started retaliating in his own perspective. I fought back again. I guess it was a huge argument. Then i got so upset, angry and tired of his bullshit, so i unfriended and blocked him. I felt i did the right thing. But now since im gonna see him this year, im worried he may do something to me. It could be anything. I feel like im in a big mess. I have had dreams that he may come back for me, yell/argue with me, plan revenge on me and so on. So im worried for my grade 9 experience. (btw he is in gr 10 now) Please help! Thank you so much!

From, H0p3L3SS

_________

Dear H0p3L3SS, 

To answer your wondering, I am still doing this cx So that means you are getting an answer cx Okay wow talk about intense o.o But there is a easy solution to this. First off, the dreams are you just dealing with anxiety. You're just scared and over thinking when you don't need to be. When your 9th grade comes around just avoid him as much as possible and since he's not in the same grade as you, you won't see him much anyway. If he does confront you or bother you than just tell like the counselor that he won't leave you alone and always be with a friend if it does happen. Usually someone wont go up to you if you are with someone unless he wants to make a fool out of himself. He needs to get over it and I'm sure this will blow over soon. 

Take care okay?

Alex

Ask Alex ~A wattpad Advice Column~Where stories live. Discover now