Constant looks and similar interests

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Hello there, my name is Bailey and I just have a few questions. There is this guy that is in two of my classes in school, and lets just say that I have a huge crush on him. I have had a few problems with liking guys in the past, meaning that one person figures out and my life that year is ruined, and I really don't want that to happen again. The thing that makes this really interesting is that I always catch him looking at me. I know that looking at people is normal, but when he looks at someone, it's me a lot of the time. I just can't tell if he likes me or not because I am really bad at seeing that kind of stuff. 

Also, he is helping me with my science experiment so that means that a few times after school, not all that often, he comes to hit a baseball because he plays on a team. Last time he came, he met my dad and my dad really liked him, and it didn't help me at all that he looked awesome in his baseball uniform which he wore. We both like baseball and I just don't know what to do. Does he like me, does he not, I just need a little advice. 

-Bailey

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Dear Bailey, 

Well firstly, don't let someone finding out who you like ruin your year. If you like someone, it's eventually going to get put out there some way, some how. Trust me, I know this for a fact. I've been in that kind of situation but I never let it ruin my year because guess what? You end up liking someone else and then everything is jolly again. Secondly, I got a guys opinion on what it means when a guy looks at you a lot. It means that he's thinking of trying a conversation with you. But in this case, since you are already working on a science experiment together I'm not sure what it means. I'm not going to sit here and say oh yes, he likes you when I myself doesn't know if he likes you or not. I really don't want to lead you to disappointment. So, what advice I can give you is that just talk to him. Not have that conversation but just constantly talk to him whether texting or in person or even both. If he likes you, he will tell you and if he doesn't then he doesn't you know? But don't get your hopes up too high and don't full on swing when your not sure if anything is there. Take baby steps in order to finding this out. Plus, this science experiment could bring you closer and becoming close friends at first. If there's more than friendship attraction then it will show. Til then, just go with the flow. 

Alex

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