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Still have feelings and don't want another

Dear Alex,

I like this guy, he notices and talks to me, he's nice and friendly and we always have a laugh. He's my ex that I've dated twice and he also has a girlfriend. His girlfriend is one of my best friends. That've been going out for over a year and they talk often. I've tried to get over him, by trying to like others and dating them, but my heart lies with him. He never broke up with me,I broke up with him. I think he likes me, more than a friend, but less than love. I also can't be too bold because I have a good reputation. I'm really confused. Also, I have another guy keep on asking me out. I said no and he changed all his networking names to 'i wish I could die' this made me feel guilty. I hope you can help,

From Confused girl 123

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Dear Confused girl 123,

Well I'm sitting here wondering why you broke up with the guy in the first place. Or well broke up with him twice in the first place. What makes you believe that the next time you guys go out that you both with still end up together in a long period of time? Your the couple that I believe keep breaking up to make up to only break up again. Your heart may lie with him but if it really did, you wouldn't have broken up with him too many times. He may like you more than a friend but less than a love but he could just be keeping ground on your friendship. He does have a girlfriend which I would just leave them alone. Maybe dating and liking other guys isn't the solution. Maybe not seeing this guy for awhile could be your solution.. When you are away from someone, you will miss them but those feelings for them will eventually go away.

This other guy I think he should have time to heal. Never feel guilty for feeling something that you don't. Eventually this guy will get over it after really thinking about it. Everyone feels hurt or crushed at first but eventually we get over it. So just let him be and don't think about it too much.

I hope this helped, 

Alex