Friends or not friends

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Alex, 

Cloe said Jenny had upset me and that she should never talk to me again, and I forgave Jenny about her upsetting me about some lie about me being mean, and now me and Jenny are friends again and Cloe is expecting me not to be :(   Me and Jenny are back to normal, and I'm still bff's with Cloe too. The two keep arguing and they want me to take sides and I'm so stuck becos Jenny lied about me, Chloe lied about Jenny but they are still arguing even though I said I won't be friends with either if they carry on. I am so upset that neither of them will listen to me and I want them to, and my other friends are getting involved and I am in fear of losing them, please give me advice  :) thanks :) Thanks ever so much for ur time and advice x

from confused person :)

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Dear Confused Person, 

Well that was slightly confusing in itself. Sorry I didn't reply right away. I have been having a headache all day and couldn't really talk to anyone because of it.. haha BUT now that I read over it I can say that... your two friends shouldn't be asking you to take sides. True friends let you decide yourself, give mutual ground, or just not mind it at all. I don't think either one should be lying or getting upset over the other. This just spells drama to me and it isn't necessary. A lie about you being mean? I mean, yeah I'll get mad but something as small as that shouldn't ruin a friendship. I can't really give you any more than this because I don't have any details on what is really going down and how you guys are friend yet your not friends. 

It's simple, be friends or not be friends. Stop confusing yourself and don't let those other girls be like that either. 

I know it didn't help much but I hope it did!

~Alex

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