Always have been single but can things change?

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hi my friend said your advice column is good and a saw that you help people so here's my problem 

I like this guy and he's my friend we call each other's nicknames and poke each other and we are both videogame nerds and when I look up at him in class I see that he's looking at me and one time I Said that I liked him to my bff Riley and she Said "eww you like him"I felt really sad wen she Said that . Every day wen I'm done geting my stuff out of my locker I go and stand by his locker or he will come and stand by my locker. and every one thinks we are together. I have never had a boyfriend or dated 

please help Alex

-lonely puppy

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Dear lonely puppy, 

Well first I want to thank your friend for mentioning my advice column :3 it's always nice to hear from someone new :3

Secondly, don't listen to Riley because you like who you like you know? It's why it's who you like and not who they like. I mean it would become a problem if you both liked the same person. 

Thirdly I got your message on how you want to ask him out but don't want to ruin your guys friendship and it's a bit tricky because a relationship is a friendship on fire if you ever heard that saying. But I think that if you ask him out that you should ask him as if  like something like "What do you think of having more than just a friendship with me?" If he asks why then just say your just wondering and say that "Do you see us having more than a friendship?" And if it goes to plan and he says yeah that he can and his opinion then just ask "Do you think you wanna try a relationship out now?" And see where that gets you but since your just wondering and if he doesn't see anything between you guys then you don't have to worry about the aftermath and you guys can just go on your day you know? If any of this makes any sense at all .-. 

Sorry I'm pretty tired right now but I hope this made sense and helps you :3

Alex

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