Ace Week

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Happy ace week everybody!!!! 💜💜💜💜

I don't really have anything planned unfortunately so for right now, even though it's kind of a boring story, I'm gonna tell how I knew I was asexual.

I believe it was around 2020/2021 and I was chronically online. I knew of bi, gay, trans, queer, and probably a few others but I didn't know asexual was a thing. And I saw a video and this girl mentioned she was asexual and I'm like "what's that?"

So I google it and I'm like "oh. Oh wait that's me! I relate to that"

And I probably took some quizzes and stuff to be sure too, because I didn't want to say I identify as a part of the lgbtqia+ (at that time I knew it as lgbtq+ so the whole a thing was super new) anyways I thought it would be rude for me to suddenly identify as a part of the community if I wasn't really ace.

I thought there had to be a requirement I needed to fulfill. That I had to pass a test but there is not really any requirements other than feeling little to no sexual attraction. I knew instantly when I read the description of asexual that it was me. I rarely thought of s3x and was always quite grossed out by it (not all aces are sex-repulsed)

So I guess I'm just here to say you don't need to fill any requirements to be asexual. You are valid 💜

Have an amazing ace week everyone 💜🍰

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