BULLIED

Submission 650

 Hello reader I'm finally willing to share my bullying experience...here it goes.

So it all started the summer before sixth grade, my Best Friend was coming over to my house for a sleepover. Me and My best Friend have known each other ever since preschool and I told her everything and she did the same. Once she arrived she said that she wanted me to me one of her friends Bully. I walked over said hi to Bully but she just ignored me. I didn't say anything except for okay then, and then started a conversation. Bully went over to the house across the street, me and Best Friend were walking up and down my street laughing and having fun. This guy comes over on a bike from the house were Bully was at let's call him Classmate (since we had almost every class together). Classmate came over and I assumed he knew Best Friend since they seemed friendly. "Hey uh girl in the pink dress, what's your name?" He asks riding his bike in a circle around us. Best Friend grabbed my arm and we moved on with our walk. At Classmates house they were calling me and Best Friend stalkers. How are we stalkers when we're weren't even looking at them and walking up my street? We just ignored them. Then Classmate came over and said "Hey girl in the pink dress Bully called you a bitch." Right when he said that and was going back to his house Bully ran insude with Bystander. Best Friend decided that we should tell my mom I told her it was fine I mean it wasn't a big deal. We did end up telling my mom because she was calling me all these things but telling classmate to probably because she was to scared to say it to my face. My mom got mad so she yelled at Bully and then it all stopped I thought. Best Friend was still friends with Bully and I made a new friend, we'lol call her Friend. She said that Bully was saying things about me on Instagram saying I made it all up. How the heck does that make sense? I told my mom and my mom write a note to the school, then my mom went to Bully's house and confronted her mother, her mother said her daughter never did any of that but that was a lie. Throughout the whole year Bully would call me all of these nasty names. I remained friends with Best Friend till she started dating Classmate2. Then Friend2 started dating Classmate3 and that's when the worst was to come. Best Friend told me that my Friend2's boyfriend Classmate3 was being rude to her but mainly Classmate2. Now she told me this on kik and was saying how rude I was for not defending Classmate2. Now I didn't defend him because he was also bullying me he would call me all these names during math class and my Friend2 just sat there not caring. After that Best Friend and me stopped talking to each other. It was the end of the school year and Best Friend became Bully2. She would cyber bully me on kik saying all these terrible things that weren't true and I just copy and pasted them right back for to feel what she was doing to me. She said that I was so mean and sent me a picture of her crying with her make up ruined. I just sat there thinking why is she the one crying? I'm the one being bullied. Bully2 would say these things over and over all of the time on kik. I eventually said sorry because I felt like I had to be the bigger person even though I never said anything bad about her like she did to me. I ended our almost 10 year of friendship. She never apologized and probably never will and that's okay. I am now best friend with someone who Friend2 made me hate, we are inseparable. Best Friend2 has always and will always be there for me as will I. I just started my first year of high school with Bully2 in my math class and some of my lunches, it's okay though because I learned who my real friends are. I am still insecure and am very careful with making friends. The thing is though Bully thought that her best friend Bully2 was innocent...Bully2 was the one that got me to tell my mom. There is a quote that I found it says "Wether we break up or stop being friends I'll keep your secrets regardless." I have never told a soul what secrets she told me and never will. I am now better but still insecure. Thank you for reading my story. 😊💜

I went through Verbal bullying and cyber bullying. I was 11 when it started. They would just call me these nasty names. I felt worthless, confused, and insecure, also betrayed. I told my mother and the guidance counselor at my school and Best Friend2. I would say like 1 year I was bullied for. I am not being bullied anymore.