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She Finally Left

This is a story of someone I know... She's so young yet so damaged. She's been thru a lot of things at a very young age. But this story is centered about how she met a guy who changed her life.

I know someone who was deeply inlove with an asshole. She never left his side, even when he already left her ( that's how much she loved him). She loved him to the extent that she gave everything she has /I MEAN EVERYTHING/ and whenever the guy leaves her, she doesnt say a word even if she's hurting. She was so dumb and numb. Dumb to believe that the guy actually fell for her. And numb to feel that the asshole was only using her -- she was so inlove, that's why. She was inlove with him for so many years. And for so many years, he took her for granted. He had lotsa lots of girlfriends. While she, had none, because she was hoping that he will come back /ya i know she was so stupid/. Then suddenly one day, he did! It was the happiest day of her life bc finally he came back. BUT he had a girlfriend that time. She didnt care, all she cared about was that 'he came back'. For the girl, they 'had' a thing. But i think for the boy, he never had a thing or never felt a spark towards the girl. ( she could say that they had a thing cause he was calling her babe and baby) Ya it's sad cause all she thought she was loved in return. She was so blind to see the reality. Joke. She knew, but she didnt care. I dont know, maybe she's a masochist? Or maybe she's just plain stupid. Many people cared and told her to stop but she never listened to them. But there was this time that she tried listening to them. She tried to control her feelings but her feelings rushed back once she saw him. Many happened last year for them. I MEAN LOTSA LOTS OF THINGS!

When they graduated in highschool, they knew that they were going in the same university. It was hard for the girl because she hadnt totally moved on. I mean, ok lang sana if different college diba pero gosh, same college tapos same floor pa. Kaso different room, course and time. But even if they had different time sched, they still saw each other in the hall way. They ignored each other like the other one doesnt exist.

Then one day, the guy texted the girl and asked if they could be friends again. She said yes - hoping that he'll fall for her 'again'. He made her feel so special but ayun nga, hindi lang pala sya trinatrato nya ng ganon. As the saying goes, ""once a manloloko, always a manloloko"", so di na talaga nagbago yung lalake. Ganon pa din sya, chick boy pa din. ( FYI, they broke up bc of third party) Pero kahit na ganon sya, the girl still accepted him kasi nga TANGA sya.

Just recently, umuwi sya sa probinsya nila. She didnt know that he also went home. They saw each other and had a little chit chat. It felt like it was the start again. Tapos katext na nya ulit yung guy ganon. But then.. The girl found out that he was still in a relationship with her ex-bestfriend. Dapat hahayaan na lang nya na ganon. Pero idk, feeling ko natauhan na din sya or baka new year's resolution na din nya yun kaya di na sya magpapakatanga. So ayun nga, napuno na yung girl. Umiyak sya ng isang buong araw kasi di na nya alam gagawin nya. Then she finally said "ENOUGH". She realized that he doesnt deserve everything she's doing for him. She finally realized that, FINALLY!!! She has been so stupid and so inlove for almost 4 years now.

Nung narealize na nga nya na ayaw na nya magpakatanga, tinext nya yung guy. Sabi nya " Goodbye. I'm already cutting my connections with you."" That was the only thing she said but for her, that was the bravest thing she has ever done in her life so far. (Bravest kasi nga weakness nya yung guy tapos kinaya nyang sya na mismo pumutol ng connection nila.)

I dont know why I'm sharing her story to you but I just wanna tell her that I'm so happy for her bc she finally did it. Sya na mismo sumuko. After 4 years, kinaya na din nya.

So this is the story of my bestfriend. THE GIRL THAT NEVER LEFT HIM, FINALLY LEFT.

P. S. Naging sila nung hs tapos naghiwalay din sila. Tapos nagkabalikan nanaman sila nung 4th yr hs. Pero naghiwalay nanaman sila after graduation kasi babalikan na daw nya yung ex-bestfriend nung girl.

P. P. S. That same yr na naghiwalay sila, naging magjowa yung ex nya tsaka yung bestfriend nung girl (magbestfriend sila since grade school)... And until now, sila pa din...saklap no? (So yun yung reason kung bakit di na nag uusap and magbestfriend ngayon)

Ms. Yaaah!
2014 
AMV College of Accountancy